Warning: If You’re Trying To “No Contact” Your Ex Back, You’re Headed For Failure
Can you really get your ex back by ignoring him?
After getting dumped by their boyfriends, lots of girls adopt the “No Contact” rule: avoiding any and all contact with their ex for anywhere from 30 days to three months. They do this for 2 main reasons:
-They are afraid they’ll come off as needy if they are the ones who initiate contact.
-If their ex contacts them, the girl is hoping he’ll feel the pain of impending loss.
They are basically thinking, “He’ll come around. I’ll just look hot and non-needy, and he’ll eventually miss me so much he’ll come crawling back.”
Wishful thinking.
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Getting an ex boyfriend back is not like being the only hot girl at the bar, where if you just sit there looking sexy, men will show up begging to kiss your feet. Not at all.
If a man just broke up with you, he’s GLAD to be rid of you. You made the mistake, and it’s not like he’s itching to come back anytime soon.
If anything, he’s probably been thinking about breaking up with you for months, for the sex or intimacy, but dropped you when something better came along.
Clearly, No Contact won’t work here.
And if he DOES want you back already, is it really worth risking your chances in the hopes that it’ll make him want you even MORE? I think not.
Instead, give him a little time, say a week or so (2 if you had a heated argument, and even more if you lost control and were reduced to tears). Then casually message him on AIM or Facebook and resume chatting like nothing’s wrong at all.
Have a normal conversation and never bring up “I miss you” or “do you want to get back together?” This will cause him to wonder if you really miss him, and why you’re not more upset. If he acts why you’re acting weird, just say “What? Can’t we still be normal friends?”
After a while, you’ll be able to hang out in person as friends (always with alcohol and preferably mutual friends around to occupy your attention). That’s the perfect time to seduce him, make him jealous, make him curious.
Then when the time comes, when you’re looking your sexiest and he’s in the heat of the moment, you pounce.
Happy Hunting. ;P
-JZ
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