Thinking About Calling Your Ex Boyfriend? Read This First

First of all, when should you call an ex boyfriend?

First of all, do NOT call him if you can’t control the urge to get angry, sad or to show any other strong negative emotion. This is the hardest thing for women to do. I know, because sometimes you REALLY want to call him and give him a piece of your mind. Or you want to make him feel guilty. Or you want to tell him how awful you feel and how much you miss him.

Don’t do it. Doing so might feel good, but to him it’s uncomfortable and reeks of desperation. Resist, resist, resist that temptation. Be strong.

On the other hand, if you can control yourself and act confident, happy and carefree, feel free to give him a call – BUT ONLY if it’s been three or more weeks since your breakup! Three weeks is the magic number to re-initiate contact.

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What to talk about when you call your ex boyfriend

You should have a reason for calling him. And that reason cannot be “I miss you,” or “I want to get back together,” or “I just wanted to chat,” or anything like that. What’s are some good reasons to call?

-Thanking him for something that he did (like returning something of yours).

-Reminding him that you have some of his stuff to give back (remember to be nice about it).

-Asking for a favor that has nothing to do with your relationship.

The key is to get him to wonder, “Does she miss me? Is she playing games? What’s going on?” If he’s still interested, he will keep the conversation going longer than what the original purpose of the call required.

When that happens, casually invite him to coffee or a drink to “catch up,” and he’ll be yours.

How to leave the right message

Sometimes you’ll get his voicemail. Whether he’s just ignoring your call or actually busy – it doesn’t matter, so don’t get crazy about it. But always leave a voicemail if he doesn’t pick up – otherwise, he might not call back, and you’ll look REALLY bad if you call him twice.

Here’s the big secret to leaving a message: Don’t ask him to “please call you back” or tell him “it’s an emergency.” That makes it all about what YOU want.

Instead, make it about HIM. Pique his CURIOSITY and SELF INTEREST. Your message should go something like,

“Hi David, it’s Jezebel. I just wanted to thank you for what you did for me the other day – call me back so I can thank you in person. See ya!”

Do you see how this works like magic? He’ll be so intrigued he’ll have no choice but to call you back!

The thing he did that you’re thanking him for – it can be any little thing, just plan it ahead of time. Hopefully these tips will prevent you from making a big mistake when calling your boyfriend, and will help you get him back!

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